The motive of the sexual instinct in man, its causes
Welcome to all of you, I welcome you all, wherever you are from anywhere in the world, a man or a woman. You are all welcome.
And I am happy to visit you to read my topic today with you, which is very important, which is the sexual drive, which is an innate motive within any human being who lives now and within any human being who will come in the future, as well as in any human being who left us hundreds of years ago in the past.
It is a motive in the human being in general wherever the human being is found.
This motive is one of the internal motives in human beings
Because people have both internal and external motives
Extrinsic are human acquired motives
The motive that is our topic today is the instinctive motive
Which is inside us, which is a motive born with us that cannot be separated from us
There are other internal motives other than this push, such as hunger and sex, which is our topic, thirst, motherhood, and the motive of self-affirmation with the ability to succeed.
The pursuit of self-harm
All of these are innate motives in humans
Acquired motives are those that are formed in a person through his interactions with his environment
As a motive for selfishness and self-love
And the motive of love and the motive of security, self-esteem and independence
All of these are acquired motives.
Now we explain the sex drive and the human need for it in his life:
Sex drive and predisposition to the opposite sex:
It is an innate thing in the human being and a motivating state that pushes the person to tend to the opposite sex and encourages him to associate with him and build a relationship with him.
This practice started from the motive of his desire to have sex
This is an innate and indisputable thing, and the remedy for it is marriage, so that forbidden sexual relations do not increase
Whoever has a desire to do so rushes to the husband with any woman in order to satisfy his sexual desire with her.
And sexual desire is defined in psychology as the sexual drive that drives you to search for the opposite sex.
Since he is looking for a woman whom he sees as suitable for him to practice with her the innate thing that emanates from within him through the stimuli and the biological factors that respond to him. And the survival of man in that life
And as I said, it stemmed from his innate motive for that.
There is a pleasure that emanates from those who want to have sex that does not end until they share it with each other to practice it
Here we conclude that the sexual relationship has two functions, which are reproduction and the pleasure that it attains in the end
This innate thing is present in most other living organisms in order to continue to exist and did not end. This is the case in which a human being and all living creatures share.
A person's sexual drive comes from his lust that he wants to satisfy
And in order to know lust, we must know its power
Yes, lust is a power within a person
It is a psychological force that leads to a strong desire for something and a strong inclination for it
It is directed towards the woman from the man and from the woman to the man
Everyone is attracted to the other to achieve his desire and this is something innate within them
They do not blame him because he is outside their will, and God has placed this thing in them
In order for life to go on.
In the end, sex is a motive in a person from within himself
Like hunger, thirst, love of survival and self-affirmation
In order to achieve his presence in that life and his survival
And he wants there to be controls for this motive, so that he should not spend his lust except with the wife with whom he will live for the rest of his life, and he can marry another, third and fourth
As long as he has a desire for that, and this is not forbidden in Islam, but Islam desires it
To take into account the state that emanates from within the soul and the desire for this
This is one of the most important and strongest motives in man, because it is by which the human race remains in its continuity and this person does not perish
This is a brief information about this aspect of the human being.
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Friday : 2022 - 11 - 04
